Blast From The Past

I can't help but love these videos. I originally posted them on here May of 2008. That would make Leah just over 2 years old.

Things I've Learned Lately

* Who decided that the month of November was really the best time to shove all but two major Young Women meetings/activities/ events in? I mean honestly. And I'm not even on the stake level.

* Matt finished painting the living room while I was in Denver (I know, he's awesome). I immediately said, "Great! Now I can put things up on our walls after one year of living here." That was in the middle of October, now it's nearing the end of November and I just got those wall hangings out of their boxes. What I've learned is now that I'm not confined to four walls in an apartment I have no idea how to tackle this project. I am at a loss.

* We've recently completed the Quinney Rounds of Car Accidents. Every family unit in Matt's family has been involved in a car accident in the last 12 or so months. We thought we were sitting pretty until a rear-ending incident at 90th South and State-ish Street. I won't tell you who was involved... but it wasn't me and it wasn't Leah.

* It just hit me yesterday that Thanksgiving is this week. Holy cow! Clam dip and frozen fruit salad here I come! Although not together, that would just be gross.

* The words, "Shmeesher smausher," can mean anything. ANYTHING. Most often though these words are the easiest way to entertain a 3 1/2 year old. It's gold I tell you. Thanks Dad!

* Cleaning your house at 7:30 in the morning is an excellent way to feel productive for the day; up until about 11:00 in the morning. Then you hit a wall. Sit down. At the computer. And blog.

* You know the hoodie that is lurking somewhere is your closet that is too gross to be worn in public? The hoodie that you bought knowing it was way too big because it's a men's size and even if the waist fit correctly the shoulders never would. The hoodie that is so loose that you could hide a spare child in it. Well I can hide a child in it, this little boy is crowding me out of my 'nicer' looking hoodies enough that this gross hoodie is my attire for the day because it's cool and I want to feel cozy. Even worse, it fits better than I ever imagined it would. -Enter tears trickling down my face-

* I have some pretty cute sisters. These sisters buy fantastically cute clothes. More specifically they've bought fantasically cute maternity clothes. I have never received so many compliments on my regular clothes as I have with these maternity clothes. It's going to be quite the let down when I fit into my regular clothes again and no one (myself included) likes them. So thank you Lisa and Tracy, for enabling me to dress the best I've ever dressed in my life.

* Christmas lights are up although not turned on yet. I think I drive Matt a little crazy when I say things like, "The lights can't be turned on until after Thanksgiving, it's too soon." He then asks why it's okay to listen to Christmas music before Thanksgiving. My reply is, "It gets me in the Thanksgiving mood." You know he's wondering why it's can't all get me in the Thanksgiving mood, but he doesn't care that much.

* People don't like to hang out in houses that are regularly kept at 60-65 degrees. I know this because that's where my house is lately. If it gets any warmer not only am I dying of heat, but Leah rolls up her pants to her thighs saying, "Mom, it's too hot."

* The organization bug has hit full force. Usually this bug is something that I have all the time anyway, but about three times a year the bug turns into a monster. Currently it's in monster mode.

* Going through your little girl's outgrown clothes to put them away for good (well, for the time being) is a sure fire way to work up some major pregnancy hormone reactions. She sure had a lot of cute baby clothes.

* Footlong, deep fried corndog + greasy skin on fries = BEST CONCESSION AT LAVELL EDWARDS STADIUM EVER! I can't wait until this Saturday's game.

Oh and Go Cougs!

I Copy My Blog Ideas

I'll admit it: I've copied the idea for this post, along with my Halloween food post. My sister blogged about these two things first. Reading her well worded thoughts spurred me into some less-well worded blogging of my own.

This last weekend I was able to go to Time Out For Women: Sweet Assurance with my mom and a couple of my sisters. May I just say? If you haven't attended Time Our For Women, you probably should. Deseret Book produces it in many cities nationwide. This is, in fact, the first time it's come to Salt Lake City.

What a weekend we had. It started Friday evening, we stayed overnight downtown, and then the conference continued from nine the next morning until nearly four that afternoon. W-O-W! It was so wonderful. We heard from many speakers. Some were better than others, but all had a great message to share. Sheri Dew, S. Michael Wilcox, Kris Belcher (yes, her name sounds like it's spelled), and Wendy L. Watson (Elder Russell M. Nelson's wife) affected me in a way that I didn't know I needed affecting. Sheri Dew especially impressed me. I'd never heard her speak before, outside of General Conference, and I'd always felt that she was sort of 'played up'. "Oh Sheri Dew is so wonderful." "Isn't Sheri Dew such a strong person?" Blah, blah, blah. Well now I get it. She really is that great. She feels so strongly about what she does and speaks about, you can hardly deny that she is rock solid in a very sandy world.

I am so thrilled that I was able to share that experience with my mom and sisters.

Needless to say, I was uplifted.

Since We're In Cold Season...

I'm so glad I found this article on Baby Center. For whatever reason, I always forget to think about these kinds of things when Leah gets sick. Some of these make a ton of sense and some of them are good old standbys. Either way, it's good info. my friends, good info. Eleven safe home remedies to soothe your child's cold and flu symptoms by Karen Miles Reviewed by the BabyCenter Medical Advisory Board Last updated: September 2008

Highlights

1) Honey (12 months and up)
2) A neti pot (4 years and up)
3) Nose blowing (2 years and up)
4) A bulb syringe (best for babies)
5) Vapor rubs (3 months and up)
6) Gargling with salt water (4 years and up)
7) Elevating the head (all ages)
8) Lots of rest (all ages)
9) Steamy air (all ages)
10) Extra fluids (6 months and up)
11) Chicken soup and other warm liquids (6 months and up)

What can you do when your child comes down with a cold or the flu?

Try these gentle, effective, and safe home remedies.

1) Honey (12 months and up)

How it helps

Honey coats and soothes the throat and helps tame a cough.

In a study conducted by Pennsylvania State University's College of Medicine, parents of 105 children ages 2 to 18 rated honey helpful and better than cough syrup for treating children's nighttime coughs.

What you need

Honey, available at any grocery store.

Honey often gets hard at room temperature. To soften it, spoon some into a container and heat it briefly in a microwave or boil some water and then set the honey jar in the very hot water for five or ten minutes.

Your child must be at least a year old to try this remedy.

How to use it

If your child is 1 to 5 years old, give him 1/2 teaspoon of honey. If he's between 6 and 11 years old, give him 1 teaspoon.

Some people mix their honey with hot water and add a squeeze of lemon, which provides a little vitamin C along with the soothing honey.

Because honey is a sticky sweet, it's important for you or your child to brush his teeth after he takes it, especially if you give it to him at bedtime.

Cautions

Don't give honey to a child before his first birthday. It can cause a rare and sometimes fatal illness called infant botulism. Find out more.

2) A neti pot (4 years and up)

How it helps

A neti pot flushes a mild saline solution through the nasal passages, moisturizing the area and thinning, loosening, and rinsing away mucus. Think of it as nasal irrigation.

According to a report published in 2008, researchers in Europe studied 390 children ages 6 to 10 and found that a nasal spray made from seawater relieved cold symptoms faster than standard cold medications. It's not certain whether the salt water simply helps clear the mucus or if trace elements in the water are beneficial. But other scientists who studied the effectiveness of saline nasal wash solutions also found benefits.

What you need

A neti pot, which looks like a very small watering can or teapot and is typically ceramic or metal.You can buy neti pots at drugstores, natural food stores, and online.

You'll also need a cooperative child. Your child must be old enough and willing to go along with the procedure, which isn't painful but does feel strange at first. It's definitely not for babies or young toddlers, and older children (and adults) might not go for it. Some people think it's neat, while others are grossed out.

How to use it

By tilting your child's head sideways over the sink and placing the spout of the pot in the top nostril, you can run water through the nasal passages to clean and moisturize them. This takes a little trial and error, but it's easy once you get the hang of it.

Try practicing on yourself before teaching your child to use a neti pot. Then let your child watch you use it. And finally, help him if he's up for it.

Here's the basic method:

1. Fill the pot with the warm saline solution.
2. Bending over a sink, tilt your head to one side and place the spout of the pot deep in the top nostril. The water will flow gently through the nasal cavity and out the other nostril. (Breath through your mouth while rinsing.)
3. Repeat on the other side.

It may be easiest to practice with your child in the tub or shower.

Cautions

Don't force a child who's not interested. This needs to be a very gentle procedure, to prevent both traumatizing him and damaging his nasal passages if he struggles

3) Nose blowing (2 years and up)

How it helps

Clearing the nose of mucus helps your child breathe and sleep more easily and generally makes him feel more comfortable. And he'll be nicer to look at, too!

What you need

A container of soft tissues.

How to do it

Many kids don't master this skill until after age 4, but some are game by age 2.

Tips for teaching nose blowing:

• Let your child copy you. For some kids, that's all it takes.
• Explain that blowing your nose is "backward smelling."
• Have your child hold one nostril shut and practice gently blowing air out one side. A mirror or a little piece of tissue under the nose will help him see his breath, too.
• Teach him to blow gently. Blowing too hard can hurt his ears.
• Give your child his own little package of fun tissues.
• Teach him to discard used tissues in the trash can and to wash his hands after blowing his nose.

If your child's nose is sore from all the sniffling and blowing, you can rub a little petroleum jelly or other child-safe ointment around his nostrils.

Find out more about when your child will be old enough to blow his own nose and.

4) A bulb syringe (best for babies)

How it helps

Clears the nose of kids who are too young to blow their nose. A bulb syringe really comes in handy if a stuffy nose interferes with your baby's breastfeeding or bottle-feeding. Try using it about 15 minutes beforehand.

Clearing a stuffy nose with a bulb syringe works best for young babies, but if your older baby or child doesn't mind the procedure, there's no reason not to do it.

What you need

• A rubber bulb syringe
• Saline (salt water) solution. You can buy bottles of saline nose drops at a drugstore or make your own.

Recipe for homemade saline drops: Dissolve about 1/2 teaspoon of salt in 8 ounces of warm water. Make a fresh batch each day and store it in a clean, covered glass jar. Bacteria can grow in the solution, so don't keep it for more than 24 hours.

How to use it

1. Tip your baby's head back and squeeze ten to 20 drops of saline solution into each nostril to thin and loosen the mucus. Try to keep her head still afterward for about ten seconds.
2. Squeeze the bulb of the syringe, then gently insert the rubber tip into her nostril.
3. Slowly release the bulb to collect mucus and saline solution.
4. Remove the syringe and squeeze the bulb to expel the mucus into a tissue.
5. Wipe the syringe and repeat with the other nostril.
6. Repeat procedure if necessary.

Don't suction your baby's nose more than a few times a day or you might irritate the lining of her nose. Don't use the saline drops for more than four days in a row, because they can dry out her nose over time, which would make things worse.

If your baby is really upset by the syringe, use the saline drops and then gently swipe the lower part of her nostrils with a cotton swab. It doesn't have the suction of the syringe, but it's better than nothing!

Cautions

Don't use nasal decongestant sprays on your baby unless her doctor tells you to. They may work for a bit, but they can also cause a rebound effect, making congestion worse in the long run.

5) Vapor rubs (3 months and up)

How it helps

Vapor rubs may help kids sleep better at night. Many of us remember being rubbed with a potent eucalyptus, camphor, and menthol vapor rub when we were sick as children. Research suggests that these ingredients actually have no effect on nasal congestion, but they make the cold sufferer feel as though she's breathing better by producing a cooling sensation in the nose.

What you need

You can now find vapor rub products made specifically for babies 3 months and older. The familiar commercial rub contains petrolatum, oils, and eucalyptus (though no camphor or menthol).

Natural vapor balms are available, too, if you'd prefer not to use products that contain petroleum or paraben. These are typically made with aloe, herbs, oils, beeswax, and essential oils. Search online for "baby rub," "baby vapor rub," or similar words.

You can also find recipes to make your own rub. Try searching for "vapor rub recipe natural" or something similar.

How to do it

Massage the vapor rub into your child's chest, neck, and back.

Cautions

Don't put vapor rub on broken or sensitive skin or apply it to your child's mouth or nose, around her eyes, or anywhere on her face, for that matter.

6) Gargling with salt water (4 years and up)

How it helps

Gargling with salt water is a time-honored way to soothe a sore throat. It also helps clear mucus from the throat. While scientists haven't determined exactly why it works, studies have shown that the remedy is effective.

What you need

Warm salt water.

Simply combine 1/2 teaspoon of salt in a glass of warm water and stir. If your child doesn't mind the taste, a squirt or two of fresh lemon juice can be a soothing addition.

Your child must be old enough to learn to gargle. For many kids, that means school age or older. But some children can manage it sooner.

How to do it

Aim for gargling three or four times a day while your child is sick.

A few tips for teaching your child to gargle:

• Practice with plain water.
• Tell your child to tilt her head up and try to hold the water in the back of her throat without swallowing it.
• Once she's comfortable doing that, have her try to make sounds with her throat. Show her what that looks and sounds like.
• Teach her to spit out the water rather than swallow it.

7) Elevating the head (all ages)

How it helps

Elevating your child's head while he rests can help him breathe more comfortably.

What you need

Towels or pillows to raise the head of the mattress, or pillows to raise your child's head.

How to do it

If your child sleeps in a crib, place a couple of towels or a slim pillow between the head of the mattress and the crib springs. Never put towels or pillows in the crib with your baby, as they could suffocate him. Don't try to raise the legs of the crib, either. It could make the crib unstable.

If your child sleeps in a big bed, an extra pillow under his head might do the trick. But if he's at all squirmy while he sleeps, it's better to raise the head of the bed by sliding towels or a pillow underneath the mattress. This also creates a more gradual, comfortable slope than extra pillows under his head.

Another option: Let your child sleep in his car seat. Like many adults who sleep in a favorite recliner when they're ill, he may rest better in a semi-upright position. In fact, if your grade-schooler needs propping while he sleeps, he may slumber more comfortably in a recliner.

Cautions

Whether it's a crib or a bed, don't overdo it. If your child's a restless sleeper, he might flip around so that his feet are higher than his head, defeating the purpose.

8) Lots of rest (all ages)

How it helps

It takes energy to fight an infection, and that can wear a child (or adult) out. When your child's resting, she's healing, which is what exactly she needs to do.

Studies show that stress plays a role in illness, too. If your child is under pressure -- because of school or friends, or something happening at home -- giving her a break may be just what she needs to fight off her symptoms.

What you need

A comfortable place for your child to rest and things to occupy her.

How to do it

Now's the time to let your child watch that favorite video or television program one more time. Or bring her a new set of crayons and paper or coloring book. Even a puzzle can be manageable in bed.

Of course, a bed isn't necessarily the best place to rest. Sometimes a change of scenery is helpful. If the weather is good, set up a comfortable place in the yard or on the porch for your child to rest. Indoors, fashion something more fun than her bed -- like a tent in the living room or a snug, pillow-filled area near you.

If your child finds it hard to rest, help her by cuddling up with some books. Teach her some finger rhymes (like "The Itsy Bitsy Spider") or tell stories together. Or bring her the phone so she can chat with Grandma or a friend.

9) Steamy air (all ages)

How it helps

Breathing moist air helps loosen the mucus in the nasal passages. A warm bath has the added benefit of relaxing your child.

What you need

A humidifier, cool-mist vaporizer, or steamy bathroom.

Be sure to clean humidifiers often (every three days is one recommendation), and according to the manufacturer's directions. Humidifiers accumulate mold, which they then spray into the air if they're not kept scrupulously clean.

How to use it

Have a humidifier or a cool-mist vaporizer going in your child's bedroom when she's sleeping, resting, or playing in the room.

Give your child a warm bath in a steamy bathroom. If she's old enough, let her play in the bath as long as she likes -- supervised, of course, unless she's old enough to hang out on her own. Adding a few drops of menthol, eucalyptus, or pine oil to the bath water (or vaporizer) may also help her feel less congested. These oils are available at most natural food stores.

If it's not a convenient time for a bath, simply turn on the hot water in the tub or shower, close the bathroom door, block any gap under the door with a towel, and sit in the steamy room with your child for about 15 minutes. (Bring a couple of books.)

10) Extra fluids (6 months and up)

How it helps

Drinking plenty of fluids helps prevent dehydration, and flushes and thins your child's nasal secretions.

What you need

Fluids that your child enjoys drinking.

How to use it

Plain water is great, but your child might not find it very appealing. Try fruit smoothies and other favorite healthful beverages, and ice pops made from juice.

Cautions

Stick to breast milk or formula for babies younger than 6 months old unless your doctor tells you otherwise. Babies that young don't need water, and too much could even be harmful.

11) Chicken soup and other warm liquids (6 months and up)

How it helps

Warm liquids can be very soothing and help relieve congestion. Studies have shown that chicken soup actually relieves cold symptoms like aches, fatigue, congestion, and fever.

What you need

Soup and tea or other warm liquids that your child likes.

How to use it

Serve soup warm (not hot). Canned soup works as well as homemade, according to researchers at the University of Nebraska.

If your child is at least 6 months old, she may enjoy some weak, lukewarm chamomile tea.

Cautions

There are other herbal teas that are safe for children, but consult your healthcare provider before trying herbal teas other than chamomile, as not all "natural" products are safe.

Stick to breast milk or formula for babies younger than 6 months old unless your doctor tells you otherwise. Babies that young don't need water, and too much could even be harmful.

Rewind

We loved October and here's why...

We enjoyed a visit from these cute girls that we just don't see enough.

Leah decided to have her own baby.

The annual tradition of McGee Corn Maze night continued on...

complete with traditional Light Saber Wars.

Tradition #2: Costume Party. This is the third year for that this has taken place with some of our friends and we love it. Apparently though, this year the parents were feeling a little underwhelmed at the idea of costumes so we only made costumes mandatory for the kids.

Tradition #3 (JUST KIDDING, MATT, although it's not a bad idea): I had the awesome opportunity to see the Broadway musical "Wicked" with some of the girls from my ward. We drove to Denver for this and it was totally worth it. I don't know why I only have three pictures of the entire trip, I'm certain I carried my camera around the entire time. I don't even have one of the whole group!
"Wicked" was everything that I could have hoped for, plus phenomenal costumes and INCREDIBLE seats at the theater. Do you like the silver shoes? Shona bought them especially for this event. (I'm really sorry that Holly and Mel B. didn't make it into these pictures, rest assured, it wouldn't have been the same trip without them.)

Leah had a special day at preschool, complete with costumes and lots of candy.

This was our Halloween Eve. We carved pumpkins and went to Olive Garden for dinner. I feel another tradition in the making with this one.

Our Halloween was really great. Leah was a fairy ballerina complete with super curly hair, sparkles, and wings. She looked SO cute! After trick-or-treating we ended up at some friend's hot dog roast for the night, which was a blast. Thanks Rolens and Hansens!

And the real Tradition #3: Although this always takes place in November, it's a Halloween tradition. The first Sunday of the month is McGee family dinner. Since not all of the cousins (and grandparents and aunts and uncles) get to see the costumes on Halloween, we've instated the November Halloween Pot Luck Dinner. Everyone brings a Halloween themed potluck item and all the cousins show up in their costumes. It's a lot of fun, and we really need to find a way to get our Idaho cousins down for the tradition one of these years.

The Name

Leah has decided to name the little guy "Bo-Bo". She keeps saying, "My baby brother, Bo-Bo."

I think that if this name sticks he'll have a great career as a circus clown.

I Thought

I THOUGHT that what I needed to be doing right now was working.

Apparently, what I really need to be doing is eating chocolate.

That's what I am doing,

Eating chocolate.

And loving it.